Oh, life. It’s full of ups, downs, and unexpected curves, and not always the fun kind! Ever had those days where you feel like the universe is playing a weird game of hide and seek with your mojo?
Sometimes our bodies throw us curveballs just when we think we have everything figured out. And let’s be honest, when it comes to the pleasures of the body, isn’t it just a bit frustrating? But, as they say, the show must go on, and boy does it! Let’s delve into an uplifting tale of rediscovery, resilience, and well… tingles.
Adapting to the Unexpected
We’ve all been there. One minute you’re on top of the world, and the next, you’re rummaging through your spicy pleasure box wondering where the thrill went. But if there’s anything our tales of resilience teach us, it’s that challenges often come with opportunities.
It’s all about perspective and a dash of creative thinking. When faced with obstacles, we often find out just how innovative and determined we truly are. And hey, when life hands you lemons, why not turn it into a zesty cocktail of self-discovery?
This is the story:
“Even on my worst day, I still have orgasms to look forward to (at least two later on that same day)! The intensity of my button tingling, back arching, hip thrusting, and earth shattering orgasms is enough to make anyone’s day better. The peak of my “OMG I’m in trouble and I LOVE it” orgasms are sinfully delicious!
As a heterosexual, divorced, single, and experienced women, I had the luxury of owning a very spicy pleasure box (toy box). Spicy solo sessions have always been my favorite, and many of my solo pleasure devices have helped me make earth shattering sweet spot discoveries. Others within my collection are there to remind me of what NOT to buy for reasons I hadn’t considered at the time of purchase.
My uncomplicated passion play and heightened sex drive is something I treasured so I never anticipated feeling challenged to arouse my sweet spot.
A few years ago I found myself in unfamiliar territory. I no longer had the voracious appetite for sex that I’d always celebrated. I assumed the loss of my libido was an “old age” curse that no one told me about since I had recently turned 40. My urges were non existent, fantasies were on hiatus, sex was rare and orgasms were either elusive or forgotten.
Eventually I brought it up when I went to my doctor for a physical. I told her about changes that I had been going through and the random symptoms that I had been experiencing (including absent sex drive). I was expecting a vague “menopause is different for everyone” response. Tests eventually confirmed that I have an illness that will cause gradual and progressive nerve loss/damage, affect my central nervous system, decrease my libido and increase my fatigue. When my doctor discussed my diagnosis, I felt as if I was attending the funeral of my sex life (and sweet spot). I knew that my diagnosis was a death sentence for the pulse-pounding Os and sexual hunger that I’d previously known.
After a sinfully long time of juggling an illness I had never heard of in a body that no longer (physically) felt like mine, I was both surprised and thrilled when I felt the familiar tingly ache of my button and an increasing urgency between my legs. The same day I rushed to start a new collection!
In the process of learning about how the disorder affects my body, I’ve also learned how to make accommodations as needs change.
I would love to test more clit suckers and clit sucking/vibrators so I can provide more descriptive and comparative reviews, and extensively promote mind blowing products. I am happy to try a variety of products though. I’ve become a SExpert when it comes to pleasure, sex and the magical O and I look forward to providing helpful info, videos and pictures for reviews.”
Written by: SExpert
To Wrap It Up
Ah, the rollercoaster of life! Sometimes it takes you through hairpin turns and unexpected drops, but it’s that exhilarating rush at the end that makes the ride worth it. Our journey taught us that even amidst challenges, it’s possible to discover new peaks (pun intended) and valleys of pleasure.
Age, health, and other hurdles might seem like they’re pulling the brakes on our passion parade, but with a little patience, learning, and a sprinkle of humor, it’s never too late to reignite that fire.
So, keep the vibe alive, trust in the journey, and remember: there’s always a silver (or perhaps, a buzzing) lining to every cloud. Cheers to the undying spirit of rediscovery and to every unexpected tingle along the way!