A Trans Man’s Story of Self-Love and Exploration

Hey there, lovely readers! 🌈 Ever stumbled upon a product that made you think, “Where have you been all my life?” Our inboxes are often flooded with delightful, quirky, and sometimes jaw-dropping stories from our lovely community members.

Today, we’re about to share a tale of exploration, a dash of humor, and a touch of unexpected pleasure that highlights how diverse our experiences with intimate toys can be. Without diving into explicit details (I promise!), let’s buckle up (or perhaps strap in?) for a whirlwind of emotions and discoveries.

The Beauty of Exploration

While some of us scour online shops or read countless reviews to find the ‘perfect’ toy, others embark on accidental voyages of self-discovery. From the standard vibrators to more intricate devices, the world of pleasure is vast and colorful. And here’s the fun fact: not every intimate toy is designed with everybody in mind. The joy is in finding the one that speaks to you, sings to you, or…well, let’s keep it PG for now!

This is the story: 

“I seem to be one of the lucky set of trans men who don’t feel too dysphoric about their vulva, and as a result of that, me and mine are very well acquainted.

I have tried countless sex toys over the years and most have been made for this part of my anatomy, but designed with cis women in mind, and are not extremely gender affirming.

So, in honour of pride month, and as an ode to “boy pussy” I wanted to write about my first experience with a stroker!

Please, strap in (or on) and enjoy the ride, while I tell you all about it.

I’m sure that most of you have seen or heard of a “fleshlight” before. These toys are supposed to imitate the human vagina/anus in silicone form, for you to insert your penis into whenever you fancy. I have watched countless porn videos of cis men using them, and loved how animalistic it seemed.

When I discovered that they actually made these “strokers” in a much smaller size (the kind of size that your clit can happily fit inside) I was ecstatic. I stumbled upon a website which sold what appeared to be dildos, with a small, ribbed hole at the base, and it struck me – I can attach this to my clit and wank myself off !
So of course, I purchased one right away.

When the stroker finally arrived, it took a while to adjust to. In order for the stroker to attach, you need to create some kind of suction inside the hole at the base. With a little bit of lube and by squeezing the stroker before you insert yourself, you can create enough pressure to keep you inside. HOWEVER, too much suction can be very ouchy for your man parts.
After about an hour or so of trial and error, I decided it was time to get my boyfriend involved.

He got the hang of it much quicker than I did.

He pumped the stroker up and down and before I knew it, there I was, receiving my first ever hand job. The soft, ribbed inside of the stroker sucked gently on my head, and watching his hands move, and his own parts start to harden in his pants, I knew I couldn’t hold back my orgasm much longer.”

Written by: BonusHoleBoy

To Wrap It Up!

That wraps it up, then. A hilarious story about self-discovery, travel, and the many laughs in between. The major moral of this story is the importance of accepting oneself and recognizing the various ways in which people find joy. Countless toys and devices can be found in this wild environment.

But the real magic?Finding the correct one, even if it takes a few tries and an additional set of hands to get there. 😉 Remember, folks, it’s not about the destination; it’s about the joyous, rib-tickling, and sometimes suction-y journey. So, keep exploring, keep laughing, and most importantly, keep being your fabulous self.

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